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Stop keeping all the family stuff in your head
Get family organizer built for you. Totemy carries your schedule, load, and finds advice you can trust
Built with family psychologists and based on proven methodologies
Load based on World Health Organization (WHO) guidance
Your data is encrypted and securely protected
Totemy measures your child’s mental and physical load using WHO guidance.
School, activities, events — now you can understand what affect on your child
See the overload before it hits
WHO guidance
A real talk-through when it’s heavy.
Ask anything — answers come from vetted sources.
Or take a guided session on what's really hurting: losing your temper, guilt, feeling unheard
Advice when you're stuck
By family psychologists
Your kids' activities and your own, family events and important dates, colour-coded, with reminders and many options
Your family’s whole week on one screen
Calendar for whole family
Your child's hobbies, interests, allergies, doctor visits — past and upcoming.
And the fuller the profile, the more accurate advice Totemy finds for you
Everything that matters in one place
Nothing slips through
And what about safe?
Unlike an ordinary chatbot, every Totemy answer is checked before it reaches you.
And if something serious comes up — Totemy notices and points you to local support resources
Safe enough that our families uses it daily
Checks the sources
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Every answer is checked before it reaches you
Notices what's serious and points you to help
Local helpline numbers, right there when needed
A calmer life in three steps
No sticky notes, no three apps, no holding it all in your head. Totemy does the remembering
Take the quiz
Two minutes quiz about your kids, goals, preferences and what’s on your mind lately
See the load
Your child’s weekly load — school, activities, and rest — calculated from what you add
Ask & relax
Ask anything, anytime. Totemy reminds you before you forget, and adjusts as your week changes
What parents say about Totemy
Rachel
Mom with 1 child
Between soccer, robotics club, and a tutor, my son was wiped out by Thursday every single week and I couldn’t figure out why. Load indicator flagged it red for the whole week. We dropped robotics for a term — different kid, honestly
Jennifer
Mom with 2 children
My son and his sister have been at each other’s throats since summer started. Instead of doom-scrolling parenting forums at midnight again, I just asked Totemy. Got an answer with the actual reasoning behind it, which is rare
Michelle
Mom with 1 child
Missed my daughter’s recital for a work deadline and felt awful about it for days. Did a session on guilt in the app — I went in expecting some generic pep talk, but it actually helped me plan around the next one instead of just sitting there feeling bad
Amanda
Mom with 3 children
Three kids, three schools, carpool that changes every single season. Used to be in my head and three different apps at once. Now it’s one screen, and I can tell you what Tuesday looks like in 5 sec
Lauren
Mom with 1 child
New school nurse called asking about my son’s allergies and his last vaccine date. Pulled it straight from the hub while she was still on the phone. Saved me twice already this month
Emily
Mom with 2 children
I don’t like pep talks at 7am, I just need the fastest way to an answer. Switched the assistant to short and direct in settings. Two sentences, done — exactly what works for my brain in the morning
Totemy — grow happy kids, stress-free
✅ All your family life in one place
✅ Parenting advices backed by research
✅ Builted for your wellbeing by experts
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